Fear is big news these days and not just with the reality shows.
A recent survey by Jericho Communications of over 20% of Fortune 1000 CEO's revealed that 43% cited fear as the number one motivating factor while money motivated only 7%. Their collective response indicates a potential disconnect from what many people hear from today's coaches and motivational speakers. In today's self-help abounding society, we hear more about embracing the rewards and visualizing your achievements than we hear about using fear to achieve your goals. Yet according to these successful individuals, fear is what motivated them.
How can we explain this "Fear Factor"? Possibly using the life Wheel may shed some light. The life wheel is comprised of 6 key areas: Mental, Physical, Family, Career/Financial, Social and Ethics/Beliefs.
Using the graphic that has been provided, begin at the center and shade each area working from the center to the outer rim. The shaded area represents your potential, your satisfaction, or your happiness. You define the terms.
The unshaded area is what I call the "Sea of Fear." Within this sea, is all of your untapped potential, those unfulfilled dreams, those areas of discontent or your unhappiness. The Sea of Fear separates you from the land of Abundance (the outer rim of the wheel) where you can be everything that you can be or achieve everything that you desire. Successful individuals have an abundant life because they have faced their fears and achieved their dreams.
How does one cross the Sea of Fear and find the Land of Abundance? The answer is simple - using goals. Goals are the life preservers that allow individuals to stay afloat during both the stormy and calm times. Without goals, the life preservers, the sea of fear overcomes even the strongest and most determined swimmer.
Each life preserver is also comprised of compartments to ensure the safety of the swimmer in case one compartment fails; the others keep the swimmer afloat. Establishing goals in each area of the life wheel will help you stay balanced as you swim across the Sea of Fear.
As you begin to fill each compartment within your Life Preserver full of goals, you may wish to consider these questions:
Mental: What do I fear about expanding my mental abilities?
Physical: Why do I fear living a healthy life?
Family: Whom do I fear in establishing a better relationship?
Financial/Career: What in this area do I fear that prevents me from financial or career security?
Social: Where is fear that prevents me from developing an active social life?
Ethics/Beliefs: What fear is keeping me from being actively committed to expressing my ethics or beliefs?
Over 2,000 years ago before the advent of modern motivational speakers, Aristotle penned these words:
"Man is a goal seeking animal. His life only has meaning if he is reaching out and striving for his goals."
Without goals providing the means to cross the Sea of Fear, we fail to see the meaning in our lives because we drown in our fears and allow the Fear Factor to control the destiny of our lives.
Leanne Hoagland-Smith, M.S., president of ADVANCED SYSTEMS, coaches both individuals and organizations to achieve their desired results. Leanne can be reached at 219.759.5601 or email her at leanne@perpetualsuccess.com